Announcement
Collapse
No announcement yet.
[vb_side_1]
Latest Forum Posts
Collapse
-
by gjordanI’m trying to learn how to load photos. ...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-25-2021, 09:17 PM -
-
I am late to the party so I have only completed the 8 Small House 1 units so far. I realize this post is too late for everyone...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-24-2021, 11:30 AM -
-
by HelenWMost Color My World quilters probably think of you as the trouble shooter for all thing Color My World.
They may not...-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-23-2021, 06:47 AM -
-
I moved the first of the year but I had ordered the fabric kit. Now when I opened it i didnt find any directions or the...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-22-2021, 12:38 PM -
-
by midnight33I’m jumping ahead a bit....made brown fusible bias for tree trunks & now experimenting with dif shapes & fabrics...1 Photo
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-21-2021, 05:37 PM -
-
by nhbasketsThought I’d start a thread where those of us using wool can post on progress when using this alternative medium for this...2 Photos
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-19-2021, 04:31 PM -
-
Because I am using a dark background I plan to make lighter coloured trees. I know that the 14 yards of bias tape required...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-17-2021, 07:39 PM -
-
I can't find anything that mentions about what kind/size needle that is recommended if sewing with 60 wt thread on top and...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-14-2021, 08:04 PM -
Trending Forum Posts
Collapse
-
by gjordanI’m trying to learn how to load photos. ...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-25-2021, 09:17 PM -
-
I am late to the party so I have only completed the 8 Small House 1 units so far. I realize this post is too late for everyone...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-24-2021, 11:30 AM -
-
by HelenWMost Color My World quilters probably think of you as the trouble shooter for all thing Color My World.
They may not...-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-23-2021, 06:47 AM -
-
I moved the first of the year but I had ordered the fabric kit. Now when I opened it i didnt find any directions or the...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-22-2021, 12:38 PM -
-
by midnight33I’m jumping ahead a bit....made brown fusible bias for tree trunks & now experimenting with dif shapes & fabrics...1 Photo
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-21-2021, 05:37 PM -
-
by nhbasketsThought I’d start a thread where those of us using wool can post on progress when using this alternative medium for this...2 Photos
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-19-2021, 04:31 PM -
-
Because I am using a dark background I plan to make lighter coloured trees. I know that the 14 yards of bias tape required...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-17-2021, 07:39 PM -
-
I can't find anything that mentions about what kind/size needle that is recommended if sewing with 60 wt thread on top and...
-
Channel: BOM 2021 - Color My World
03-14-2021, 08:04 PM -
[vb_side_2]
[vb_main_1]
Wedding Rehearsals
Collapse
X
-
-
-
-
Filter
-
Administrative
new posts
-
Wedding Rehearsals
I am curious about something that i often see in American movies or tv shows and that is the practice of wedding rehearsal dinners. are they very prevalent, who has them only the wealthy or all socio-economic classes. what is the purpose of them what is being rehearsed, are all the wedding guests invited or only the wedding party, do you have to take a gift. Do other cultures have this practice as far as i know they don't happen in Australia.
Curious Jenny in OzJenny in OzTags: None
- IP
-
Generally wedding rehearsal dinners are the night before the wedding after the rehearsal. Usually hosted by the groom's family. For the most part it is the wedding party and both parents. But I have seen that expanded to include other out of town family members. It can be quite simple like a pot luck dinner at the church hall or someone's house or quite elaborate as you would most often see in the movies. I believe they are very common here.
Lorna
- IP
-
It has been my experience that most weddings have a rehearsal dinner of some type, but it can be as big and extravagent at a fully catered affair or as small as a cook out on the brides parents front lawn. I thought it was the bride's family that covered the rehearsal dinner though - I know my mother paid for mine (rented a room at a nice local Italian restraunt - just wedding party, close family, and out of state guests), and others I know the bride's family paid for as well. I always thought it went that the bride covered the rehearsal dinner and wedding the groom's family paid for the reception and honeymoon. Of course, my dh and I paid for it mostly ourselves so I might be wrong 8)
- IP
Comment
-
As far as I've ever heard the bride's family covers the wedding reception and the groom's takes care of whatever the rehearsal dinner is. The members of the wedding party are rehearsing so everybody knows where to stand and where to go during the wedding so it will go smoothly. The dinner doesn't have to be a real big deal so I think most people, rich or regular, have one. Ours was a get together at my Mother and Father in Laws house.
KarenLyndhurst, Ohio USA - East Side Suburb of Cleveland, Ohio
- IP
Comment
-
I've understood it to be the groom's parents that traditionally host the rehearsal dinner. You're right, it can be as simple as a cook-out at the groom's parents' home, or an elaborate affair. As both of our sons were married quite a distance from our home, we elected to have the dinner at restaurants for both occasions, with a set menu, with a couple of entree choices. Neither affair had alcohol, though. It all depends on the couple and on the families involved. The bride's family helped us with the arrangements, as we did not know what was available in the different cities, but we paid for everything. As the bride's family traditionally pays for most of the other expenses, I think it's a good way for the groom's family to contribute and to participate. But truthfully, that's not always feasible and the bride's parents might want to do it all, and that's perfectly OK, as well.Lyndhurst, Ohio USA - East Side Suburb of Cleveland, Ohio
- IP
Comment
-
Speaking from the point of a wedding coordinator (my last job before joining TQS), I can highly recommend a wedding rehearsal. It makes for a MUCH smoother wedding day, when everyone involved has had a chance to practice and knows when to walk in and where to stand. The rehearsal is held usually the day before the wedding, however, it depends on the venue's availability. As the rehearsal involves the entire wedding party and family it is customary for the groom's family to provide a dinner that day. It can be elaborate or very casual. I have been to casual BBQ places and very upscale dinners.
My oldest son is getting married around Christmas, so I can certainly relate. As he will be out of town for most of this planning, he has asked me to help out. His choice for a rehearsal dinner is a local restaurant that specializes in Colorado Wild Game.
Lilo
- IP
Comment
-
Thank you all for your prompt and informative replies. isn't this the best site, any type of information that is needed is readily supplied. as i said i have been curious about this event over the years and i think Alex's talk of weddings piqued my interest again and i knew if i brought the subject up here that i would get my answer. thanks again
Jenny in OzJenny in Oz
- IP
Comment
-
When the time comes for my two sons, the problem will not be rehearsals, but how to 'accommodate' my ex-husband and his wife. I sometimes think that my older son (nearly 30 and living with the same wonderful girl for nearly 8 years) is not married yet for exactly that reason. I'm not the problem, the other wife is. Ah well, as the kids say: 'We are saving quite a lot of money by not getting hitched right now.'
By the way, I thought that Alex looked stunning in that dress (and not a single 9-Patch in sight)! Lilo, maybe you could borrow it when your son gets married?!
LorchenFrom the edge of Sherwood Forest, home of Robin Hood
- IP
Comment
-
You leave the wedding rehearsal thinking the wedding is going to be a disaster but enough sinks and everyone ends up where they are suppose to be. My daughter married in Dec 2001 and the rehearsal dinner was catered in the fellowship hall at the church and it was before the rehearsal so everyone was there and ready to practice on time.
- IP
Comment
-
This has been a fun thread - brought back memories of each of our children's weddings. When my son got married, we owned a cross country ski lodge (a financial disaster - but that's another story). The outdoor wedding was there and most of the relatives were staying there; so rehearsal dinner was there, too. Everyone pitched in to help decorate, etc. It was a great time for all - very casual and fun. A year later when my daughter got married, we no longer had the lodge. She wanted her rehearsal dinner to be a BBQ at our house, with all the family & friends, volleyball net set up, etc. But alas, it was not to be. The groom's father wanted something more formal and limited to the wedding party. Other than that, everything about her wedding weekend was perfect. And I am blessed by the spouses both of my children chose :-)
- IP
Comment
-
My daughter's wedding in 1996 was somewhat unusual. She wanted to be married outdoors, but the local bishop would not permit it. So we had two weddings - with a rehearsal lunch in between! On Friday morning, she wore a street-length white dress and he a suit when they were officially married in the Catholic chapel on the UW-Madison campus in front of immediate family and members of the Saturday wedding party. We then went to a Chinese restaurant for lunch. Since the couple and most of the people in attendance had participated in local community theater productions, I presented each member of the party with T-shirts in the wedding colors, printed with a personally-designed wedding "logo" on the front, and a theater-related term for their "part" on the back. Bride and groom were "Star", dads were "Producer", moms were "Director", grandmas were "Technical Advisor", bridesmaids and groomsmen were "Supporting Cast", etc. We all changed into jeans and the shirts after lunch and went to the park to decorate for the Saturday wedding, complete with party subs for dinner. Then on Saturday, the "Celebration of Marriage Vows" took place in the park, with the long white dress and all the trimmings. Her god-father, a lay minister, presided over a ceremony he helped the couple write. The evening finished with a picnic-style dinner and dance in the park pavilion. She's always said it was everything she wanted it to be, and thankfully the weather (always challenging in Wisconsin) cooperated - it didn't begin to rain buckets until Sunday morning!
- IP
Comment
-
See, now you all have me thinking about planning weddings!!! Actually I sort of have to plan my own, lol. My husband and I were married almost 11 years ago at the small church where I was a member at the time - Rj was Ukrainian Catholic and did not want to force me to convert. Anyway, as time went I ended up converting to Roman Catholic, but nothing was ever said about my marrage and we went on not knowing there was any problem until recently when a new priest came to our parrish. We were talking about weddings and I mentioned that my husband and I were not married in a Catholic church. WELL... seems in the eyes of the church we are not really married then :shock: :shock: :shock: It is easily rectified - we just have to hold another ceremony with the priest. We could just do it in his office with a witness, or we could have some fun with it and have a full out second wedding. We are thinking Hawiian themed with the groom in Hawiian shirt and white pants and me in a moomoo, lol... And then a big party afterward for all our friends!!!From the edge of Sherwood Forest, home of Robin Hood
- IP
Comment
What's Going On
Collapse
There are currently 108 users online. 0 members and 108 guests.
Most users ever online was 573 at 03:01 AM on 01-31-2025.
Forum Stats
Collapse
Topics: 7,646
Posts: 144,737
Members: 16,641
Active Members: 5
Welcome to our newest member, Lev Anderson-LevTest1.
Latest Topics
Collapse
There are no results that meet this criteria.
Trending
Collapse
There are no results that meet this criteria.
Comment